Secrets of Contentment

Some people are not contented with their lot in life. Even though they have enough, they still want more. These people fall to the category mentioned in this ancient adage: "A mere lover of silver will not be satisfied with silver, neither any lover of wealth with income. This too is vanity." (Ecclesiastes 5:10)

A person constantly desiring for more always finds himself dissatisfied all the time, thus leaving him no room to enjoy what he has. In connection with this, Benjamin Franklin said, "Contentment makes poor men rich; discontent makes rich men poor." When a person is content with what he has, no matter how little it may be, he is rich in the sense that he is always happy with his lot. And happiness is a treasure that truly matters in our pursuit of our basic necessities.

The following are the secrets of contentment  found in God's Word, the Bible.

1) Love people, not money and possessions

1 Timothy 6:10

"The love of money is the root of all injurious things."

Acts 20:35

"There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving."

1 Timothy 6:7-9

"For we have brought nothing into the world, and neither can we carry anything out.  So, having sustenance and covering, we shall be content with these things. However, those who are determined to be rich fall into temptation and a snare and many senseless and hurtful desires, which plunge men into destruction and ruin."

2) Resist the urge to compare yourself with others

Galatians 6:4

"Do your own work well, and then you will have something to be proud of. But don't compare yourself with others."

Ecclesiastes 4:4

"And I myself have seen all the hard work and all the proficiency in work, that it means the rivalry of one toward another; this also is vanity and a striving after the wind."

1 Samuel 16:7

"For not the way man sees [is the way God sees], because mere man sees what appears to the eyes; but as for Jehovah, he sees what the heart is."

Proverbs 11:2

"Has presumptuousness come? Then dishonor will come; but wisdom is with the modest ones."

3) Maintain an appreciative attitude

1 Thessalonians 5:18

"In connection with everything give thanks."

Psalm 143:5

"I have remembered days of long ago;

I have meditated on all your activity;

I willingly kept myself concerned with the work of your own hands."

James 1:17

"Every good gift and every perfect present is from above, for it comes down from the Father of the [celestial] lights, and with him there is not a variation of the turning of the shadow." 

Philippians 4:6,7

"Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be made known to God;  and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus."

4) Choose you friends wisely

Proverbs 13:20:

"He that is walking with wise persons will become wise."

1 Corinthians 15:33

"Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits."

Jude 16

"These men are murmurers, complainers about their lot in life, proceeding according to their own desires, and their mouths speak swelling things, while they are admiring personalities for the sake of [their own] benefit."

Proverbs 17:17

"A true companion is loving all the time, and is a brother that is born for when there is distress."

Philippians 2:3,4

"Doing nothing out of contentiousness or out of egotism, but with lowliness of mind considering that the others are superior to you, keeping an eye, not in personal interest upon just your own matters, but also in personal interest upon those of the others."

5) Satisfy your spiritual need

Matthew 5:3

"Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need."

Romans 1:20 : Examine the evidence that God exists.

"For his invisible [qualities] are clearly seen from the world’s creation onward, because they are perceived by the things made, even his eternal power and Godship, so that they are inexcusable."

Romans 12:1,2

"Consequently I entreat you by the compassions of God, brothers, to present your bodies a sacrifice living, holy, acceptable to God, a sacred service with your power of reason.  And quit being fashioned after this system of things, but be transformed by making your mind over, that you may prove to yourselves the good and acceptable and perfect will of God."

1 Timothy 6:6

"To be sure, it is a means of great gain, [this] godly devotion along with self-sufficiency." 

(Based on Watchtower magazine, November 1, 2010)

Contentment

"Let your manner of life be free of the love of money, while you are content with the present things. For he has said: 'I will by no means leave you nor by any means forsake you.'"

- Hebrews 12:5

photo by Charlene N.K.

Love of money has sent many people to ruin. Because of it, they work hard to the point of jeopardizing their own physical and mental health and neglecting the emotional needs of their families. Some resort to illegal and immoral activities without due regard to their consequences. Others go as far as injuring their fellows and even to the point of killing them. They do anything to gratify their insatiable love for money. And yes, they're never contented at all. They want more and more, just like what this Scripture says:

"A mere lover of silver will not be satisfied with silver, neither any lover of wealth with income. This too is vanity." 

- Ecclesiastes 5:10

On the other hand, those who are contended with what they have live a happier and more satisfying life. They don't have to work so hard but just enough to fill their basic needs. They have more time to be with their families and friends, and enjoy a wholesome association and recreation. They make their days count by spending some time with spiritually upbuilding activities and by enjoying the beauty of creation which our Creator has designed to uplift our spirits.

photo by Charlene N.K.

The last part of the Scripture above is a promise of our Creator  that if we keep ourselves contented, He will never leave us without. He will see to it that we are well-provided for. Yes, for He is the Grand Provider to those who trust in him.